Okay before you think I have gone off topic to plan the birthday party for your toddler here me out. Often for me being invited to a birthday party as a kid was an invitation that I got were few and far between. This is because I found that because of having a physical disability can be a challenge and for people that don’t deal with it day in and day out. I don’t know if this was my own perception but I have often wondered if parents were afraid that if I was invited to their kids birthday party that I was somehow fragile and/or that they couldn’t manage to help me in the way I needed. Things like helping me to the washroom or even from the floor to my seat around the table or getting from one level of the house to the next.